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Guilt - The untreated wounds.. [ Part - I ]

Guilt - Your self destruction
Never thought you gonna get over something? And you really didn't get over it until you kept worrying about it. I know that feeling. This mostly happens with the person deeply in love with someone and gets ditched or ignored without a reason. And we begin to think; 'what was my fault? What I did wrong? ' And all those stupid things. Wait, I am not here to talk about love and its consequences. NO WAY! People are having their own experiences now days and that's better for them. After all LOVE is not a matter teaching or being thought of. 

Let's get to this. Sometimes in life, no matter who you are, what position you hold & no matter what kind of person you are; you feel guilty from inside. Sometime you're lucky enough to know why you're feeling so. And sometimes you don't know the reason. And sometime even by knowing this reason of being guilty but you can still can;t do anything about it. And that's the worst part. Its like you topped in examinations but can't move to next grade just because you're afraid if you can pull it of or not. 

Sometimes, this situation occurs between parents and child. Its not only a child who can do mistakes. Remember, adults and parents are human too. They can also make mistakes. Sometimes their decisions ruins their child's life and they don't even realize that. But after a point of time when they see their child grown up an being affected by that silly decision of them, all they could do is having a pain inside of ruining the child's life and not even being able to clear that mistake. Because, now the time has passed by. And you can't mold the clay after it gets solid. You can't even try to re-mold it; consequences are either the clay work will loose the shape; either you won't be able to give the shape you wanted to reform and mess up.

Sometimes kids lie to parents to everyone they loves the most in the world out of being afraid of the reaction of them if they have told them. This happens usually with almost every child now days. Which leads them to wrong paths as they never find comfortable to discuss their selves out with their loved ones; their parents; which results into; they don't have anyone for being guided and supported. This is the point when kids starts feeling like no one cares about him and no one is really going to stand besides him; gonna understand him. This are very small matters. But can generate big issues in later life...


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