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I've  learned- that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I’ve learned- that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. I’ve learned- that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. I’ve learned- that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I’ve learned- that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts. I’ve learned- that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse. I’ve learned- that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something. I’ve learned- that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do. I’ve learned- that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I’ve learned- that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. I’ve

Guilt - Your self destruction Never thought you gonna get over something? And you really didn't get over it until you kept worrying about it. I know that feeling. This mostly happens with the person deeply in love with someone and gets ditched or ignored without a reason. And we begin to think; 'what was my fault? What I did wrong? ' And all those stupid things. Wait, I am not here to talk about love and its consequences. NO WAY! People are having their own experiences now days and that's better for them. After all LOVE is not a matter teaching or being thought of.  Let's get to this. Sometimes in life, no matter who you are, what position you hold & no matter what kind of person you are; you feel guilty from inside. Sometime you're lucky enough to know why you're feeling so. And sometimes you don't know the reason. And sometime even by knowing this reason of being guilty but you can still can;t do anything about it. And that's t

कभी सोचा नहीं था की जिंदगी भी कभी एक ऐसा मोड़ लेगी। मै कोई बड़ा लेखक नहीं; हा, इसका मतलब यह भी नहीं के मै लेखक ही नहीं ! ये कुछ नया-सा सफ़र है मेरा साहित्य के ईस अनंत महासागर में। ये भी नहीं पता की खुदको लेखक कहुभी य़ा नहीं ! लेकिन है कुछ लोग जो मुझे इसी नाम से पुकारने और जानने-पहचानने लगे है। तो सोचता हु क्यों न खुद को कुछ वक्त के लिए लेखक कहलूँ ! मेरे विचार; पता नहीं कितनी हद तक सही है, सच्चे है या फिर यूँ कहलो की कितनी हद तक वास्तविकता से मेल खाते है! पर हाँ इतना ज़रूर मालूम है की मै इनका पालन  पूर्णतः करता हु अपने व्यक्तिगत जीवन में ! शायद यह कहना भी गलत नहीं होगा की जिस भी मुकाम तक पहुँचा हु जीवन में वह इन्ही विचारो की बदलत ही तो है !  जिन्दगीमें भी शायद कुछ ऐसा ही होता है ना? जिंदगी को देखने का मेरा नजरिया हो सकता है की शायद आप सबसे अलग हो। या शाद यूँ कहूँ की आपमें से किसी को या शायद सभी को इससे आपत्ति हो सकती है, पर ये मात्र मेरे विचार है। मै तो चाहता हु की आप भी मेरे विचारो को जाने और मेरे विचारो पे अपने विचार प्रगट करें ! फ़िलहाल के लिए इतना ही। फिर जल्दी मिल